These are difficult comparisons because the results are different in kind. They can all matter. You cannot do them all at the same time, so choosing one means leaving another out.
We give ourselves priorities to deal with that. And then we can use the priorities to tell ourselves a convenient story.
I will give you mine.
My default is family. So when something at work has not gone as planned, there is a ready explanation: of course I did not get it done, I spend a lot of time with my family.
For years I told myself I was not exercising because I did not want to take the evening away from family or work. The problem with that explanation is that I was not exercising when I was single either. Back then, work was the excuse.
The priority was real. The explanation was convenient.
Work can serve the same purpose. It can become the reason for every other part of life having to wait. A complaint at home gets answered with an explanation about earning money for the family. A health problem gets put off because there is too much work to do.
I am not suggesting that choosing a priority is wrong. I am saying that a priority can explain a choice, or it can protect a habit from ever being examined.
Does one of your priorities also give you a convenient excuse?